Galaxie - Understanding difference

Understanding the difference in male vs. female!

I just finished reading a book called "Men are from mars and women from venus" by John Grey. Why I started reading this is because of a big frustration that developed today! My realationship took a beating today after a fight of a tiny problem. Mainly, I realized after reading the book, beacause of our different aspects of life. When I say that I mean men and womens different aspects. Just one simple thing I learned today, which I think falls for almost everyone, is that women often talk about their problems just to ventilate and feel compassion from the other part, which from a mans perspective means that she wants advice. They don't want advice they just need someone to share their story with and as I said get compassion from the other part, in that way they feel good as for men, when they come home after a harsh day they just want to keep for them selfs and deal with the problem quitly and if they can't solve it they want to do something like reading the newspaper or a magazine to just simply forget the problems! While the man does this the women thinks automaticly that something is wrong or that she did something wrong and starts asking questions which isn't very popular when the man is trying to deal with it in his own way. Simply makes it worse.

This is how men and women are different in one of many ways and after reading this book I must say that I opened my eyes for me beloved and maybe, maybe even will make things easier!

I think communication with eachother and understanding eachothers needs are the two big problems in todays realationships! Also in todays society everything is supposed to be equal between men and women but from my perspective it's gone a bit to far for our best! We are different and have to understand that although keep in mind that many things are also very good with the equal society today. But because it's so important to be indipendent the realationships take the fall! One needs to be needed in both directions in a realationship!

Maybe he's right, maybe he's wrong in the book but it sure made me realize things in benefit for both parts! I just hope it's not to late!

Hope yall are healthy and happy! Til next time/ Galaxie